I read this comment elsewhere…but I really empathize with it.
"Lying to him and pretending to have feelings for him. there’s very few crueler things you can do to a person than to make them happy and then reveal their happiness was never real. This girl is not only a coward but a shitty excuse for a human being."
If you can find a nice guy who really cares about you, and I mean REALLY cares…you’ll know. There are plenty of shitbags out there, but for the most part, it’s easier to identify them. Usually they’re so cruel and belligerent that if you’re not blind or delusional, it’s obvious this guy is no good. Usually. Some guys are really manipulative, but the crafty ones aren’t too common.
But if you manage to find someone who loves you for real, you will know it. So make sure that you are a mature and stable person before dragging them along, fucking them over, and then leave them to pick up the pieces. It just isn’t fair, no matter how you try to justify it, or how you feel. If you’re that kind of person, it’s chances are that you don’t consider others’ feelings often anyways.
Don’t waste his time.
Yet if you manage to find someone awesome and treat them right, than excellent job! Kudos and the best of luck! Couples like you prove that there’s hope for everyone.
Also guys, make sure you know what you’re getting into before it’s too late. Make sure YOU are ready and mature enough to handle whatever that could happen. Trust me, it’s easy to make mistakes when you let your emotions take control.
So… someone made a Skyrim mod where all the dragons are replaced with Thomas the Tank Engine characters and it’s the funniest fucking thing I have ever seen. (Watch the video, you won’t regret it.)
Above, the World-Eater sits in the flaming wreckage of Helgen.